Wednesday, October 31, 2007

The power of DREAM

Each and every one of our lives is affected by several factors. One of those factors is our environment - where we live, what kind of parents we have , which factory you work , who is your friend are; each plays a role

We also shaped by the events in our lives.A war, for example, can wrench all certainty from our psype.

Dream are a projection of the life we wish to lead. Therefore, when we allow them to "pull" us, our dreams unleash a creative force that can overpower all obstacles hindering the attainment of our objectives.
To unharness this power, however, dream must be well defined. A fuzzy future has little pull power. To really achieve your dream, to really have your future plans pull you, your dream must be vivid.

Now there are two ways to face the future: You can face the future with anticipation or you can face it with apprehension. Guess how many people face the future with apprehension? Right, most do.

You've seen the type - always worrying, worrying, worrying. Why are these individuals so apprehensive? Because the haven't spent time designing their futures. In many cases, they live their live by trying to win the approval of someone else. In the process, they end up "buying into" someone else's view of how life should be lived. No wonder they are worried - always looking around, seeking aprovel for everthing they do.

On the other hand, those who face the future with anticipation have planned a future worth getting excited about. They can "see" the future in their mind's eye and it look terrific.
The future captures their imagination, and it exerts an enormous pull on them.

All your dreams come true, if you have the courage to pursue them. - Walt Disney

Success

Everyone is seeking and dreaming to be success
What success mean to you?
Success has a multiple layer of meanings

An elusive notion, a paradox. After all, it is both a journey and a destination, isn't it?
It's the steady, measured progress toward a goal and the achievement of a goal

Success is both an accomplishment and a wisdom that comes to those who understand the potential power of life.
It's an awareness of value and the cultivation of worthwhile value through discipline.
Success is a process of turning away from something in order to turn toward something better - from lethargy to exercise, from candy to fruit, from spending to investing.

But most of all, success is making your life what you want it to be. Considering all the possibilities, considering all the examples of others whose lives you admire, what do you want from your life? That is the BIG question!

Remember, success is not a set of standards from our culture but rather a collection of personal value clearly defined and ultimately achieved.

Making your life what you want it to be for you - that is success. But how does one go about doing that?That's precisely what this articel about.

Action vs Self-Delusion

In the recent years there have been a number of books which promote the idea that if one verbally affirms what ones wants on a daily basis, success will magically emerge.

I'm completely opposed to this mode of thinking. Based on exprience , affirmations without discipline to act upon those things which are affirmed cause men and women to declude themselves into thinking they're making progress when, in fact, their daily activity leads them nowhere.

Why do people say one thing and then act in direct contradiction to theirs affirmations?

The man who dream of wealth and yet walks daily toward certain financial disaster and the woman who wishes for happiness and yet thinks thoughts and commits act that lead her toward certain despair are both victims of the false hope which affirmation tend to manufacture. Why? Because words soothe and, like narcotic, they lull us into state of complancey.
Remember this :
TO MAKE PROGRESS YOU MUST ACTUALLY STARTED!

So to have a prosperuos life, start a prosperity plan. To become wealthy, develop a "wealthy" plan. Remember, you don't have to be wealthy to have wealth plan;a person without any means can have a "becoming rich" plan.

Even a bad person like me can start reading good books. The key is to take a step....today. Whatever the project,start TODAY.

Start setting your first goal........TODAY
Start saving for your children................TODAY
Start reading a motivation books.....................TODAY

What the heck!Get some momentum going on your new commitment for a good life.
Prove yourself that the waiting is over and the hoping is past - that faith and action have now taken charge.

It's a new day, a new beginning for your new life. With discipline you will amazed at how much progress you'll be able to make. What have you got to lose except the guilt and fear of the past.

Wednesday, October 10, 2007

Idea - Idea Ramadhan dan Jadual Waktu Sekolah


Saya Hasmar Bin Ramley
Saya merupakan bapa kepada 5 orang cahaya mata yang terdiri dari 4 orang lelaki dan seorang puteri yang dikurniakan Allah pada 15 April tahun ini.
Hari ini saya ingin berkongsi satu idea yang saya ilhamkan sendiri dan telah saya kongsikan bersama rakan-rakan.
Idea memotivasikan anak-anak dalam berpuasa.
Begini ideanya.....
Dirumah saya mengunakan kaedah graf setiap kali Ramadhan tiba ( saya sertakan contoh gambar graf itu )
Graf ini akan menunjukkan tarikh Ramadhan dan Inggeris untuk rujukan dan waktu
Untuk waktu boleh ditunjukkan dari pukul 10 sehingga ke waktu berbuka.
Saya akan tampal graf ini didinding rumah saya dan anak-anak akan saya ajar untuk kemaskini graf ini menggunakan sticker warna yang telah saya tetapkan untuk anak-anak
Keunikkan graf ini juga mampu menunjukkan prestasi puasa dan memotivasikan diri anak-anak untuk berpuasa sehingga waktu berbuka.
Walaupun hari ini telah 23 Ramadhan , tetapi anak-anak saya masih dapat melihat prestasi mereka yang baru belajar puasa untuk sepanjang Ramadhan kerana graf menunjukkan keseluruhan Ramadhan.
Ini membantu menbina semangat ingin berpuasa kerana mereka melihat sendiri prestasi mereka pada graf yang saya sediakan.
Saya juga mempunyai satu idea untuk membantu ibu-bapa menyelesaikan masalah mengemas buku untuk dibawa kesekolah melalui jadual waktu.
Seringkali , anak-anak kita akan melihat jadual waktu dan mula mencari buku yang diperlukan.
Kita ubah konsep ini dengan penggunaan kod warna.
Begini ideanya....
Gantikan hari-hari dengan kod warna
Contohnya : Isnin bersamaan warna biru
Selasa bersamaan warna hijau
Kemudian cari sticker kecik mengikut warna hari dan tampal pada sisi buku ( mudah dilihat )
Jadi sekiranya ingin menyusun buku untuk jadual waktu hari Selasa, anak-anak kita cuma perlu mengambil semua buku yang mempunyai sticker yang berwarna hijau.
Untuk buku-buku yang mempunyai kekerapan untuk dibawa kesekolah , tidak menjadi masalah.Tampal sahaja sticker yang mewakili hari-harinya.
Setakat ini dulu saya berkongsi idea dan semoga artikel ini dapat perhatian
Berkenaan graf Ramadhan itu , ibu-bapa juga boleh buat graf untuk bil air , letrik , belanja harian dan sebagainya
Ini akan meransangkan sensitiviti keluarga dalam sebarang perbelanjaan kerana........
Gambar menwakili seribu perkataan.
Selamat Menyambut Hari Raya 1428 Hijrah
Assalamualaikum

Kronologi Pembedahan Usus Hasmar Bin Ramley

28/5/2007 - Diserang muntah-muntah dan sakit perut yang pedih dimana perut rasa seperti
terbakar.Mendapatkan rawatan diklinik panel berdekatan rumah

31/5/2007 - Pergi ke hospital Serdang untuk pemeriksaan Doktor memaklumkan kemungkinan petanda awal penyakit gastrik
Diberikan ubat gastrik Sekadar mendapat rawatan pesakit luar.

05/6/2007 - Mendapat surat dari doktor Sony klinik dan sekali lagi ke Hospital Serdang
Juga dimaklumkan petanda awal gastrik dan diberi ubat baru , tetapi saya
memohon untuk berjumpa doktor pakar Hospital Serdang Temujanji dibuat untuk hadir pada 26/06/2007

08/6/2007 - Mendapat surat dari klinik panel berhampiran rumah.
Mendapatkan rawatan pakar selepas kecewa dengan response hospital
kerajaan. Terus ditahan wad untuk pemeriksaan lanjut (Hospital Pakar An-Nur) Menjalani pemeriksaan Ultrasound di Seremban
Keputusan pemeriksaan menunjukkan banyak angin pada usus kecil

11/6/2007 - Pemeriksaan CT Scan di KPJ Kajang
Mendapat maklumbalas dari doktor pakar yang usus kecil banyak angin
dan bengkak.
Doktor menyarankan pembedahan bagi melihat punca sebenar penyakit.
Pembedahan diberi nama "Exploration Operation".

Pembedahan dilaksanakan dan saya dimaklumkan :-
a) Apendiks melekat pada usus dan doktor buang apendiks b) Usus kecil mengandungi banyak air dan doktor picit untuk
mengeluarkan air bagi mengecilkan kembali usus kecil.

17/6/2007 - 6 hari selepas pembedahan , keadaan perut masih menunjukkan
pemulihan yang tidak memuaskan.
Doktor juga menyatakan kebimbangan beliau kerana beliau takut
ada sesuatu yang dia tidak perasan sewaktu pembedahan.
Pada malam tersebut , terasa ingin membuang air besar dan semasa proses tersebut
tiada najis yang keluar , sebaliknya darah yang agak banyak keluar.

18/6/2007 - Memaklumkan kepada doktor dan telah diaturkan satu pemeriksaan yang dikenali
sebagai Barium di KPJ Kajang.
Pemeriksaan mendapati terdapat sekatan dalam usus besar yang menandakan
kebarangkalian Kanser Usus.
Terpaksa memohon untuk ditukarkan ke Hospital kerajaan kerana bil An-Nur telah
melebihi dari nilai yang ditanggung oleh ING (Insuran Syarikat).

ING Coverage : RM 9,000
Bil An-Nur : RM 13,179.75

19/6/2007 - Dihantar ke Hospital Serdang dan dimasukkan ke Wad 6C

22/6/2007 - Pembedahan untuk pembuangan kanser usus dilakukan selama 4 jam.
Selesai pembedahan dimasukkan ke ICU kerana keadaan tidak stabil.
Penyakit yang dikesan : Transverse Colon Cancer.

25/6/2007 - Dimasukkan ke wad biasa ke ICU

27/7/2007 - Discharge dari Hospital Serdang dan perlu datang untuk rawatan susulan
(Pencucian luka pembedahan)

17/8/2007 - Rawatan kimoterapi untuk pusingan pertama selama 5 hari.
Kesan biasa yang dialami selepas kimoterapi :-
a) Rambut gugur
b) Cirit Birit
c) Pecah bibir dan gusi

17/9/2007 - Rawatan kimoterapi pusingan kedua

Bonus for October 2007

Assalamualaikum
Hari ini Sony EMCS (Malaysia) Sdn Bhd , mengeluarkan 70% bonus kepada semua pekerjanya bagi memeriahkan lagi AidilFitri yang bakal disambut pada 13 October 2007 untuk semua pekerjanya.
Bagi saya yang tidak bekerja ini , ianya satu yang saya nantikan penuh debaran akan rezeki yang bakal diterima.
Alhamdulilah , apa yang saya perolehi sedikit sebanyak dapat membantu persiapan AidilFitri , apa pun aku percaya disaat ini ada insan yang lebih tidak bernasib baik seperti kita.
Dan seharusnya kita bersyukur dengan setiap rezeki yang Allah kurniakan pada kita semua.
Terima Kasih pada HVT Management terutama my boss Mr.Haffis , Mr.Rozi dan Mr.Razak.
Selamat Hari Raya AidilFitri 1428 Hijrah dan berbelanjalah bonus yang anda terima dengan sebaik-baiknya...
Assalamualaikum.
Jangan lupa bayar zakat fitrah.

Monday, October 8, 2007

Selamat Hari Raya 1428 Hijrah

Assalamualaikum
Selamat Hari Raya Aidil Fitri
Tahun ini berhari raya simple giler coz dah almost 4 bulan xkerja , tak dapat nak pulun OT ( Overtime ), basic habis untuk bayar hutang je.....he...he
Anyway aku redha dan ramai lagi saudara-saudara kita yang kurang bernasib baik diseluruh muka bumi ini.At least kita bersyukur hidup dalam negara yang aman.
And thank to all yang mendoakan kesihatan dan kesejahteraan saya.
Tahun ini berhari raya di Tampin , Negeri Sembilan
Raya ke tujuh akan masuk wad kembali (HKL) , untuk kimoterapi sessi ketiga
Apapun thank you to my sister Haslina coz sponsor baju raya
Also to my litlle sister Hasfiza coz sponsor baju melayu
Depend on bonus on Wednesday , andai murah rezeki , so adalah baju tambahan untuk anak-anak.
Apa pun terimalah kad video ucapan hari raya ini buat semua yang mengenali saya.
Assalamualaikum
video

Saturday, October 6, 2007

Discipline

How discipline you are?How good you manage your time?How efficient is your work?How do you spend you break time?
Do you know that one of the ingredients in our recipe of life is DISCIPLINE?I believe most of the people who don’t believe will REJECT it as they conjure images of everything from a though drill sergeant to a strict school teacher waving a ruler.
Discipline is the bridge between thought and accomplishment....the super glue that binds inspiration to achievement......the magic that turn financial necessity into the creation of an inspired work of art.
Discipline is the foundation on which al success is built. Lack of discipline inevitably leads to failure
Failure is rarely the result of some isolated event. Rather, it is a consequence of a long list of accumulated little failures which happen as a result of too little discipline.
Failure occurs each time we fail to think.
If your mission today requires you finish 10 articles for your magazine and you only finish 4 on that day, then you are missing 6 articles today.Simple like thatIf you intention today to spend RM50 for your lunch and dinner, but you spend RM75, then you lost you part of your financial today which is RM25.So how about it
Are this is a sign of danger for you or you only will say “Alah , it’s only 6 articles or it’s only RM25”Believe me , It’s really make a change.
Success follows exactly the same pattern....in reverse. If you plan to make 10 articles today and you go beyond your quota to 12 articles, you’re ahead by 2 articles..........today. Do the same with your correspondence and your saving plan and soon you’ll see he accumulated fruits of your diligence over a year and, eventually, over a lifetime.

Happiness

So let’s us talk about happiness.Who don’t like happinessI like happiness so much?Happiness with my family.Happiness with my friendsHappiness with my life.But believe me that there ‘s some people who not enjoying the word happiness.Why this happen?Let’s us define the word of happiness.
Happiness embraces the universal quest. It’s a joy that usually accompanies positive activity.Like wealth, however, it, too, has a variety of often contradictory meanings. It’s both the joy of discovery and the joy of knowing. It often accompanies those who fully aware of the colour, sound, and harmony of life
Happiness come to those deliberately expand their horizon and experiences.
But happiness is more than a general feeling. It’s also is one of the method in thinking.Why?Cause it will organize feelings, activity, and life style. In other words, it’s a way of interpreting the world and its events.
Yet most of us think of happiness as something either lost in the past or a peak that will be arrived in some distant of our future. Few understand that happiness can only be experienced in the NOW. And yes, like all good things, happiness is often elusive. But I promise you that it is not impossible to capture.
So how does one latch onto the white bird of happiness?Curiously, by understanding and applying a concept which is rarely associated with happiness......discipline

Wednesday, October 3, 2007

Wealth

So let’s us see the second keyword: Wealth
Wealth is a controversial word because it’s brings to mind a wide variety of images and sometime conflicting concepts. After all, each of us views wealth from different perspective. To one person, wealth may mean having a lot of money so that they can do whatever they wish. To another, it may mean freedom from debt. To yet another it may mean the opportunity to grow and to achieve.
But out of this diversity come creativity and creativity can help each of us find unique way to work or a life of abundance.
To the majority who probably haven’t spent too much time thinking about the subject, wealth is simply symbolized by one word: MILLIONARE. Now there’s n exciting word!. It rings of success, freedom, power, influence, pleasure, possibility, and benevolence. Surely, being millionaire is not a bad mental image to hold.
Likewise, the word wealth embodies more than economic concepts. One can talk of the wealth of experience, the wealth of friendship, the wealth of love, the wealth of family, and the wealth of culture.
However, for our purpose here, we shall focus on the kind of wealth that brings with it financial freedomWEALTH THAT COME FROM THE CONVERSION OF EFFORT AND ENTERPRISE INTO CURRENCY AND EQUITY.
For each of us, the specific amount required for us to fell wealthy will differ. Yet I’m not sure that our basic dream is the same: to free of financial pressures, to have freedom of choice, and to enjoy the opportunity to create and share.
What does WEALTH mean to you? How much money will take for you to feel financially free? These are not idle question. As you’ll soon see, the more clearly defined your concepts about material wealth are, the more useful the ideas in this blogger will be for you.

Half-Dozen Thing

A half-dozen things......what a key thought.
Whether we are working to improve our health, wealth, personal achievement, or professional enterprise, the different between triumphant successes or bitter failure lies in the degree of our commitments to seek out, study and apply those half-dozen things
For example, for a farmer to reap a plentiful harvest in the fall, the half dozen basic he must concentrate o are fairly obvious: soil, seed , water, sunshine, nourishment, and careEach of this elements is of equal importance because only together do the bring to fruition a successful harvest.
Thus, a good question to ask before undertaking any new project or setting new objectives is this : WHAT ARE THE HALF-DOZEN THINGS THAT WILL MAKE THE MOST DIFFERENCE TO THE OUTCOME? Whether the enterprise is in the pizza maker , internet business , fisherman , sportsman or businessman, thing that will be count is those half-dozen fundamentals.
The understanding and application of this simple principles is the first intelligent step towards accomplishing your dream and objectives.

Fundamentals

Fundamentals
How you describe the word “fundamentals”. I believe most of us will describe is as those basic principles on which all accomplishment is built.
Fundamentals from the beginning, the basics and the reality from which everything else flows
It’s a contraction of terms to talk about new fundamentals.That’s like someone claiming to have manufactured new antiques. One would be suspicious, right? No, fundamental principles belong to the ages.They have been the same from biblical times and will continue to remain so until the end of timeSo why not use the word “fundamentals” and apply it to the concept of success.If you or me are looking for fundamental success, the kind of success that lasts, that is built on a solid and clear foundation, then we should avoid exotic answers. And believe me, there a lot of exotic answers are being offered these days, especially in Malaysia, country that I live.
So in spite of rumours to the country, success is a simple process. It doesn’t fall out from the sky. It is either magical or mysterious.
SUCCESS IS MORE THAN THE NATURAL CONSEQUENCE OF CONSISTENTLY APPLYING THE FUNDAMENTALS OF SUCCESS TO LIFE.
The same is true of happiness and wealth. They too, are no more than the natural consequence of consistently applying the fundamentals of happiness and wealth to life.The key is to stick to the fundamentals.